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Photo AlbumMar 28, '08 4:10 AM
for everyone
Roberto V. Sanchez Jr.
November 9, 1949 - March 26, 2007





After trying to stay away from Daddy's pictures for some time, I realized that the only way I could deal with missing him was to face my fears, and to cry if I have to. It has been a year, and I still miss him more each day. March 26 came and went -- what do you know, a whole year has already passed! But as I struggle each day missing him and trying my best to let him go, I've learned that to let him go means to embrace his memories more, to think about him more, and to thank God for him more.

Ohh I cried while listening to you, SBCers, speak of my Dad last Wednesday, during the celebration of his first death annivesary. I cried for months writing that letter Mom asked me to do. Once in a while, I'd cry over reading old journal entries, and all those blogs I've written since Daddy passed away. I cried uploading these pictures, and I cry as I type this now.

But what can I say, if there's a need to cry -- then why not. My Dad's a great husband and father, a great friend and confidant, a remarkable pastor and counselor, and he's definitely someone who's worth missing and crying buckets of tears for.

Unearthing Dad's pictures is not an easy thing to do, but it has reminded me of the good times, and his smile, and the people he lived his life for -- all of you whom my Daddy loved -- you whose smiles adorn these pictures with my Dad.

I may have not noticed it before, but seeing and spending time with the people my Dad spent his life with has always made me feel like he's still around -- you all live a piece of Daddy with you.

Allow me to remember my Dad through this album. If you have pictures of him stashed somewhere in your old file folders, or if you have a record of his smile kept somewhere in your multiply accounts, please embed them on the comments section of this album so I can see them. Or, email them to me at riz.sanchez@gmail.com so I can upload them up.

If Daddy can access this site from above, I'm sure he'd love to see those pictures too. :)

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Also, here are some blogs and albums written and created in memory of Daddy.

+ I love you Daddy
+ Missing Dad, compilation of blogs for Daddy
+ Nag-iisang Prinsesa, song and video composed and created by Bud
+ Thank You from the Sanchezes
+ A Tribute to Our Great Pastor by Ninong Dave
+ Pastor Bob's Last Night by Ninong Dave
+ Goodnight Pastor Bob by Ninong Dave
+ Ang Hindi Malilimutang Bigote by Marian
+ I Cried by Hobbes
+ Let the Tears Flow by Xaris
+ In Memory of our Pastor Bob by Pat
+ Being Still (To Rhiza) by Sheila

If you have other blog entries written for Daddy (whether this year or last year), leave me a note so I can include you to the list.

May this page be Daddy's online memorial page, so we can always look back and reminisce the eternal days of the father, the friend, the pastor, and the man that he was and will always be.


Staring at this pic still brings me tears
  

Proud dad :)
  

Daddy, always on the sidelines, rooting for me
  

I hope I make you proud, Dad
 2 Comments 

With Mom and Dad
  

Daddy's speech on my Debut :)
 1 Comment 

Christmastime 2006 at Starbucks
 1 Comment 

Siiigh
 1 Comment 

We let him get a dose of espresso just for a day :)
  

Dad's last New Year celebration
 1 Comment 

With Lola and Mom
  

Christmas eve, bible reading
  

Sparkling apple drink, no alcohol :)
  

Lola's Birthday, 2007
  

Last Christmas with Dad
  

Daddy's last Bday message, Prayer Meeting 06
  

Will surely miss him from behind that pulpit
  

Daddy, you are loved :)
 1 Comment 

Pastors :)
  

Love :)
  

The Pastors, and the Pastors' Wives
  

Mom and Dad
  

Will never forget that smile
 2 Comments 

Last medical dental mission
  

I always imagine this pic to be my wedding day :,(
 4 Comments 

ATAS Christmas celebration 2006
  

Merry Christmas, Dad..
  

:)
  

ATAS, First Gen
  

Married couples, Christmas 2006
  

SBC's 33rd Anniversary
  

SBC @ 33
  

BOT, Board of Elders :)
 2 Comments 

Daddy and his beloved kids
  

Daddy's birthday, 2005
  

Happy 56th birthday! :)
  

Daddy with SBC moms :)
  

The men of SBC :)
  

Baguio trip, 2004?
  

My Dad, the bowler :)
  

Eunice's Debut, Feb 2007
  

Singing at Eunice's debut
  

ohhh sniff :,(
 1 Comment 

He loves you all too :,(
  

Dad's final rest, Floresco Funeral Homes
  

at Caloocan Christian Church
  

Goodnight, Daddy :(
  

He's all over the mural on SBC's wall :)
  

See, I can smile now. :)
  

Hi Daddy, I miss you
  

My Dad's BEST friends
  

Pastor John, reporting for duty :)
  

Mga Disipulo ni Pastor Bob :)
  

Ate Vi
  

Mommy
  

Happily Ever After, definitely. :)
  

Ivy
  

Mommy, Ninong Dave, Ate Vi
  

Parang anjan lang siya, nanonood
  

Kuya Niks and Normi
  

Iniwan mo kame bleeehh :(
  

The creators of this mural :)
  

Nice JV
  

Kuya and JV, nagbibigaypugay :)
  


40 CommentsChronological   Reverse   Threaded
cathybabao wrote on Mar 28, '08
what a beautiful way to remember your dad and to process your grief, Riz. i am sure he is so proud of you :)
xaili wrote on Mar 28, '08
and the look in your eyes ate...
xaili wrote on Mar 28, '08
you can have all the espresso shots you can ever have now, tito! x)
xaili wrote on Mar 28, '08
of course, he is!

lflores0860 wrote on Mar 28, '08
its always nice to remember a good friend, a younger brother, a father.
pastor bob has it all, i will never forget all the good things he thought to me.
jopwitee wrote on Mar 28, '08
Ano ba, lagi na lang ako naluluha everytime you have a Tito Bob entry or album. Sniff. I miss him too. I just can't imagine how much you miss him. :(
neverkid wrote on Mar 28, '08, edited on Mar 29, '08
From the Sky to the Kite


& the imaginary sky
to fill your wedding church will be him.
not the familiar faces cheered
by candles, splashed with hymns.
not the promise you’ll sacredly utter
in front of god & a thousand petals. not the knot.
not even the groom who on that day
shall see beyond the whiteness you wear.
there will be a yearning prayer
which you’ll keep hushed in your heart.
& with that prayer you’ll know beyond your heart,
beyond the prayer itself, beyond the vignettes
left of you of him—a cup of espresso,
a toothful and thoughtful smile,
kids commemorating him through personalized shirts,
birthdays, christmas, your mother—that
daddy is & will always be your sky.
& you, a little kite now flying away from the earth.
fly, little kite. say I do. & he has loved & loves you too.

(For Riz)
taguan wrote on Mar 28, '08
oh, tito bob.
jottypatootie wrote on Mar 28, '08
aww..uyy i dreamt of tito Bob pala day before the camp:)
inafeleo wrote on Mar 28, '08
hello, just a passerby. im so sorry for what happened. nararamdaman kita. i pray that you God be with you always as you go through hard times. I pray for your father too, and your family.
anjfelipe wrote on Mar 28, '08
*hugs*
jovans wrote on Mar 28, '08
hi tito bob :)
spoiledgeek wrote on Mar 28, '08
I'm pretty sure he is, Riz. *hugs*
vibay wrote on Mar 29, '08
missed you din kuya bob, rhiz
patdatul wrote on Mar 29, '08
and it happened again. na-teary eyed na naman ako sa entry mo. missing Tito Bob.
marianmarian wrote on Mar 29, '08
hello, just a passerby. im so sorry for what happened. nararamdaman kita. i pray that you God be with you always as you go through hard times. I pray for your father too, and your family.
hi ina, ang kulet naman to find you here :) that's tito bob, our beloved church pastor who passed away last year. one year na pero parang kelan lang.
marianmarian wrote on Mar 29, '08
hay nako, umiyak na naman ako. i was talking to te vilma the other night and we remembered Tito Bob. She said, "Alamo Joy, mahal na mahal ka 'non." Then tears welled up on her eyes. Waah, I miss him so much.
jottypatootie wrote on Mar 29, '08
lahat ata kami naiyak ulit. *tighthug* sigh. miss him.
davidus wrote on Mar 30, '08
haaaaaaaaaay! toBob. (i think i have moe pictures in my hard disk that are still unpublished anywhere.)
meemai wrote on Mar 30, '08
haha grabe pinagtulungan si ate bubut. :)
nikosdgreat wrote on Mar 30, '08
si dad nakangiti lang sa langit, almost always i just hear what he has to say to me in situations i'm in, brings me smiles.
nikosdgreat wrote on Mar 30, '08
actual photo, hindi sila umaacting
meemai wrote on Mar 30, '08
i am currently in an internet shop in Eastwood viewing this. Nakakahiya man lumuha dito, di ko na napigilang di umiyak.

He gave his life to this ministry and it's overwhelming to see the outpour of passion he put in the cause of Christ. I admire your courage Riz. It takes a lot of strength to put this up, yet you did. And because of this, your dad's memory will be witnessed by thousands of people who may be touched one way or another. *hugs*

I can't help but think how he's like Elisha.. Remember when a dead body was thrown into the tomb and touched Elisha's bones (Character BS natin)? The dead body came back to life! Just like Tito Bob, even beyond the grave, the power of the Holy Spirit in him still strikes many of us and gives us life to move on and finish what he started in SBC. :)

Happy one year up there Tito Bob! I can only imagine the party they threw for you when you first stepped into the gates of heaven. :)
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08
Added new pics. :) Thanks for sharing, everyone. You all make me cry with your kind words for Daddy. Indeed his life is a blessing, and it continues to be a blessing even now that he's not with us anymore. :)
reclusiveminutiae wrote on Mar 30, '08
*teardrops with a smile*
He will always be a big part of my heart's "leap of faith" :)
smile palang nakaka-bless na :)
how can we not miss him...
+---yakap ate---+Ü
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08, edited on Mar 30, '08
that
daddy is & will always be your sky.
& you, a little kite now flying away from the earth.
fly, little kite. say I do. & he has loved & loves you too.
I lost it on these lines when I first read it -- I was crying like crazy! (And I didn't get to reply right away na because before I knew it, I was too busy trying to stop crying to type a comment or two).

Thank you, Karlo. We don't know each other that well (aside from those stories from Camz, alam mo naman si switart mo, hehe) and you didn't know my Dad at all, but this poem has captured what the album (or at least my thoughts on this particular picture) is all about. Thank you. Really appreciate it. :)
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08
aww..uyy i dreamt of tito Bob pala day before the camp:)
Let me guess, i bet he said something like, "akala nila patay na ko" in your dream? :) that's what he said in my dream. and in rachel's dream. hehe :)
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08
davidus said
haaaaaaaaaay! toBob. (i think i have moe pictures in my hard disk that are still unpublished anywhere.)
Hay naku Ninong, I thought so too. One of these days I will ransack your hard disk to take all of Dad's photos that i could find! I hope you have photos of Daddy with my brothers.. and our family pictures too.. I don't have those. :(
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08
hello, just a passerby. im so sorry for what happened. nararamdaman kita. i pray that you God be with you always as you go through hard times. I pray for your father too, and your family.
Thanks Ina. A stranger's words (such as yours) are real source of encouragement. Thanks for taking time to drop a word. :)
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08
si dad nakangiti lang sa langit, almost always i just hear what he has to say to me in situations i'm in, brings me smiles.
You should read Kuya's private message re: this album. Nahiyang ipublish sa public kasi mga MACHO daw kasi kayo (his own words). Nahiya atang magpost nang hindi joke. Hehe. :)
rizsanchez wrote on Mar 30, '08
meemai said
Just like Tito Bob, even beyond the grave, the power of the Holy Spirit in him still strikes many of us and gives us life to move on and finish what he started in SBC. :)

Happy one year up there Tito Bob! I can only imagine the party they threw for you when you first stepped into the gates of heaven. :)
Amen, Normi. :) Haayy.

P.S. Hoy. Pumasok ka! :) (Mapapagalitan ka nyan ni Daddy kung di ka pumasok! hehe)
meemai wrote on Mar 30, '08
ang sarap nyang tumawa. :)
joniang wrote on Mar 31, '08, edited on Mar 31, '08
waa. naiyak ako dahil sa photo at caption nito.. anubi... :'(
joniang wrote on Mar 31, '08
i love this pic! :)
joniang wrote on Mar 31, '08
awwww...
vilmasalvio wrote on Mar 31, '08
miss you much, kuya... hikbi...
vilmasalvio wrote on Mar 31, '08
miss you much, kuya...hikbi...
neverkid wrote on Mar 31, '08
I lost it on these lines when I first read it -- I was crying like crazy! (And I didn't get to reply right away na because before I knew it, I was too busy trying to stop crying to type a comment or two).

Thank you, Karlo. We don't know each other that well (aside from those stories from Camz, alam mo naman si switart mo, hehe) and you didn't know my Dad at all, but this poem has captured what the album (or at least my thoughts on this particular picture) is all about. Thank you. Really appreciate it. :)
it's nice to hear that this one tugged a heartstring, even at the expense of you weeping, for, like a good life to your father, it gave way to this poem's purpose: not really to make you cry but to serve as a connective release. you can now burn this poem, and smile. :)
budz1984 wrote on Apr 7, '08
Kakamis talaga si tito bob, a very caring pastor, counselor, and a friend... His entire life was dedicated to God and his love and care for the ministry was very remarkable.... miss you tito...
h0bb3s wrote on Apr 11, '08
i was here! i was here! i was here!... i was here! we had coffee and the egg tart from "something stow".. after dining at Dencio's... it was Tito Bob's treat :) actually, one of the many treats i had from him... i missed the joy of making one for him... all the more even now...
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